In Me, In My House

Last week, I shared some about what I do as a house intuitive. This week, I want to share some results stories.

One client sought my services because her child was away from home and having a scary experience. I was able to take care of the demons and beyond that, I was able to add light and angels to protect them. The report was that the child was able to sleep peacefully and had sensed a pillar of light in the room.

Another client was frustrated with some unfinished houses. They'd build and then not finish. They were also holding on tight to the home, even though they wanted to sell it. The report back was that within 24 hours of my work, which included some generational work about not finishing things, the spouse who wasn't informed of the session began to finish the house and get it ready for sale.

I have a lot of fun hearing back after a session. Many comments will be, “that energy that you didn't quite understand, well it was about...” and they'd go on to explain how it made perfect sense to them. I have had stories of people feeling compelled to clean a room after I cleared the energy, often after years of avoiding that part of their house.

One of the most profound experiences is in my own situation. This is a prime example of why I don't just work on homes. I work on the people who live in them too when they allow it.

For years, our back fence was falling down. It was frustrating me, but I really didn't know what to do with it.

I began to have some serious problems with my neighbors. I would try all kinds of things to repair the energy, but it just wasn't doing anything.

I built an energetic wall between our homes. I live in a duplex and these were the people on the other side of the wall. They started building up the fence that divided our yards. That made me laugh, knowing I had built an energetic wall.

One day, when things got really bad, I had a friend help me see what I couldn't. It's not uncommon for a healer to struggle to see their own energy. She saw a big hole in the back of the yard where the negative energy was getting in. I discovered that I had a hole in the back of my aura. The cause was that “God doesn't have my back.” I felt so unprotected by Him.

I took the necessary steps to heal the hole in the energy at the back of my yard. I took the steps to heal my aura. I took the steps to heal my beliefs about God. I chose to believe that He is always looking out for me, protecting me, keeping me safe.

About a week later, our neighborhood decided to do a cleanup blitz. They chose a few houses to help. Ours was on the list. First time ever that we made that list. They came to our home and cleaned up the fence. They put it up as best as they could. It was no longer falling over, still using the old boards. I was in awe that it happened so quickly. A few months later, the city decided to put our irrigation ditch underground. In the process, the fence was replaced.

Healing the energy in our homes and the energy in us creates miracles in our lives. I'm forever grateful for the skills I have.

If you want to learn more about what I do and how to work with me, feel free to send me an email. yourhouseintuitive@gmail.com

With love from my heart to yours,

Michele

Intuitive Healer

Healing homes and the people who love them.

What's a House Intuitive

I'm a house intuitive. I say that but what does it mean? I want to share a bit of what that means and invite you to consider working with me.

I tune into the energy of a home. Each home has a history, even if it is just the energy of the land or builders. The arguments we've had leave residue in the home. The beliefs we've had about our bodies, leave residue in the homes. The homes can hold our sadness, depression, and a whole lot more. When there is a remodel, the energy doesn't always shift. There are so many things that affect our homes, which in turn affect us.

One fun story was when I did group healings. I did one in which a roof was missing energetically from a house. When I shared the notes, I got feedback from one lady that her home had been in a hurricane and their roof was blown off. I don't know if the roof was energetically missing and attracted the hurricane or if it was the hurricane that caused the missing energy. I do know that it was amazing feedback for what I was seeing.

Sometimes, our own beliefs affect the house and that could even be left in the home. Another story was when a client was frustrated because the efforts she was using to cleanse her home weren't working. Sage, bells, clapping, etc. they just weren't working. When I looked, I found an energetic pattern hiding in the walls. It came out every two weeks and the impression I had was that's when previous tenants fought about money.

I had one time where the roof was about 6 feet above the place where the roof was meant to be. In that case, the phrase, “let's blow the roof off of this place” actually created the energetic roof blown off. Eventually, that home would have had roof damage of some kind.

“What's said in this room, stays in this room.” We've all heard it and some of you have said it. What you didn't realize is that you were locking that energy in the room. As it's often a secret that is rather negative or talking about someone behind their backs, you can imagine what that does to a home. I prefer comments like, “This stays between you, me, and the Lord above,” or “this is confidential.” We want to include the universe or deity, or we'll create that cord between us and I don't want to keep that kind of energy around any more than I want it in my home.

The good news is, just because it got trapped in your home, doesn't mean it has to stay. That's what a house intuitive is for. I tune into the energy of your home and sometimes even your own energy with permission of course. I also take the steps to resolve it.

Most of my work I do remotely on my time but occasionally I'll get on a video chat to do the healing. Right now, to have my services, send an email to me. I'll answer questions and we can discuss the details of what it takes to hire me. yourhouseintutive@gmail.com

It's a fascinating business and I love the results people share with me. More on that next week.

With love from my heart to yours,

Michele

Intuitive Healer

Healing homes and the people who love them.

Bless This Mess

Today, I want to talk about the mess that is in my room. Here's what happened. I got my room 98% clean. I had a small group of things that I was waiting on until I finished decluttering my stored stuff to finally take care of. That was it. My room looked great, it felt great, all was great.

It didn't take long before I pulled out all of the dishes to look through. It took a while to get through them, so my room was cluttered with boxes and stacks of things to go to this place or that. It was driving me crazy to have the mess in my room. Finally, multiple boxes were sent to donate. Some things were sent to trash. Some pulled out to use. A few put away for the future. My room was looking pretty good again.

Again, this didn't last. I now have a mess I'm sitting in again. Clothes that I need to pull out of the totes to store for next year when my younger kids grow a bit more. A few things for me to put away. It's really kind of annoying. I could easily clean up much of the mess but energetically I've had a “why bother” attitude.

Being me, it was time to look at the pattern in my life. I got to a point in my healing journey where I felt that same why bother energy. It seemed that no matter what I did, there would be something to heal or clear up. After a while, this gets a bit discouraging.

The other things I noticed is this. I love to clean up messes. I enjoy cleaning bathrooms because I can see them get cleaned. When my home is a big mess, I can see it get cleaned. I feel so accomplished when I do. I love mowing the lawn because you can see the results. I even love putting puzzles together, but I feel a sense of loss when it's done.

In my life, it is similar. I'll recreate the mess in my energy. Cleared up a relationship? Created a similar problem in another relationship. If I clear a type of energy completely, like worth, I'll find some other energy to focus on.

It's like I wouldn't know what to do if I didn't have a mess to take care of. If I finish it, I have to pull out another puzzle whether that be a mess in my room, a big energetic belief, or some other problem. I don't know if it is an addiction. I thought it was for a bit, but I think it is more a fear of the emptiness.

If I clean my room and it stays clean, what will I do? If I finish healing my beliefs, what will I do? I think I have my purpose all wrapped up in solving these problems. I think I'm afraid I will have no purpose when it's all done.

I'm not alone in this kind of thinking. Many of us recreate things or pull out new problems. Maybe your reason is the same as mine, maybe it's different.

Do you feel truly comfortable in a clean room? or do you feel exposed? I felt this for a while.

Are you avoiding something else in life? If you have to focus on cleaning the house, you won't need to look at that problem somewhere else in life. Energetically, you keep attracting that mess to keep you distracted.

If you are recreating a mess, whether that be your own doing or your families, why is it? What is the pattern for you? What would it take to change it?

Lots of love and light,

Michele

P.S. I'll keep you posted on my progress as I address this energy. Knowing is half the battle. 😃

Intuitive Healer

Healing homes and the people who love them.

Soulda Woulda Coulda

I often ask myself the following question, "What can I do in my home to help shift the energy of <insert current dilemma here>?" Lately, every time I ask—no matter what the subject—I got the same response, "Sort the dishes."

The dishes were boxes of dishes up in a closet. They were dishes I used in my marriage. Nearly 11 years ago, they got packed away. First, we moved in with my in-laws. Then my ex and I were separated for a bit while he lived with his family and I lived with mine. After that, we got back together but this time living with my mom. Finally, we separated for good and I continued to live with my mom. During the divorce process, we sorted and divided them; otherwise, these dishes have remained in boxes for years.

I delayed this process for a few months. Here's my main thought, "If I sort these and give some away, then I am admitting that I will never have my own place, that I will be here forever." This isn't logical but often the things that keep us from doing what we know is best isn't logical.

Recently, I pulled them out. The first two boxes weren't so bad. It was kind of fun. I found some things that we could use now, some things that I will keep at least for now, and some that I am donating. Pretty simple and it wasn't so bad.

Then came the third box. It's silly that a casserole dish brought tears to my eyes. It represented the life that could have been. It unlocked grief that I hadn't addressed. There was the failed marriage and although we had problems, I did love him. There were the guys that although I tried to let go, I still held on.

I compared it to other parts of my life. The life I could have had if I would have taken care of my body. The life I could have had if I had gone to that one school. The life I could have had if I hadn't gotten pregnant. It goes on. All of the things I should have done, could have done, and would have done. This alternate life that a part of me was still holding onto. I had dreams and things went according to a different plan. In the end, maybe I'll see it was a better plan. 😊

To let go of the guys, I imagined them to be kites and I simply let go of the strings. I can't tell you how much lighter I felt. I then traced it back to childhood. I went to a time when I had to give up some favorite clothes because they didn't fit. I wanted to hold on then, and in a way I did. After that was healed, I would look for other areas this idea applied such as my weight, money, etc. Each place that an emotional trigger occurred, I did more healing. I even did some premortal work to clear some things from before I was born.

Imagine the life I can create now by letting go of the life that could have been. Imagine the possibilities of what I can create. Are you holding onto what could have been? What patterns can you find in your stuff? Even if you don't have a lot, I bet you can find a pattern. You might even find healing like I have.

Lots of love from my heart to yours,

Michele

Make Me Small

Years ago, early in my decluttering process, I found myself with about a week's worth of clothes in the closet that took up about 6 inches of space. My husband at the time had clothes that took up about a yard of space. I was getting rid of nearly anything I had control of, which meant my clothes were easy to send away. Why?

There are different causes of what I would refer to as extreme clutter. Nearly everyone who hasn't decluttered has things they can let go of. Those people who easily let go of things don't look at those few things as clutter. Clutter happens when you have too much stuff or too little space. It's really when you don't have a home for everything, and you can't find what you need.

My children were young. We were getting ready to have my 5th child. I had a teenager and three little people 4 years old and younger. We lived in a two-bedroom apartment. We had dressers in the front room. We had a three-month supply of food storage in boxes lining our dining room. We squeezed multiple beds and a crib in one room. I was a space utilizing queen. I had the kind of clutter that came from too little space.

I started the FlyLady system. I was cleaning out whatever I could. I couldn't touch the husband's clothes, so I would take care of mine. Even with all my efforts, I heard over and over that we had too much stuff. It hurt so much because I knew I was doing my best and the real problem was the size of our place.

It's funny looking back. I didn't get each babies clothes down to a week's worth, just my own. I talked my teenage son into going down to 30 t-shirts. I encouraged my husband to weed out a few of his clothes. It was mine that had to go. I was trying to make sure I didn't take up too much space. I was making ME small.

Internally, it was okay for those wonderful kids to have what they needed. They needed the space. They needed the clothes. They deserved to take up space, but I didn't. My decluttering efforts were about what I could get rid of to take up very little space. It played out in life.

I stopped playing the piano so I wouldn't compete with my husband. I stopped trusting my intuition. I was the one who did the budget and I'd make sure he had money to spend on whatever he wanted, no matter how little we had. I'd occasionally give myself some spending money and then spend it all on him and the kids. By the end of my marriage, I didn't know who I was. I decluttered myself away and tried to take up as little space in the world as I could.

This kind of decluttering isn't healthy. This mindset isn't healthy.

As I've healed, there have been stages of healing. In the last 9 years, I've lived in the same place with my mom. I went from living in a family room without a door to having my own room with a door. I didn't think I was worth my own space 9 years ago. Now, I created boundaries and declared to myself that I deserved a room of my own. It's been a process to get where I am today, one of great healing.

I'm no longer looking for what to get rid of. I'm no longer trying to make myself as small as possible. I'm looking for joy. Keeping what brings joy. Surrounding myself with joyful things. I'm finding ways to let my light out and grow. I laugh more than I ever remember laughing in my life.

Things aren't perfect. I still have some things to go through, things to declutter and beliefs to sort through. I know that there will be great healing in the process. It's okay to be where I am because I can see how really far I have come.

Lots of love from my heart to yours,

Michele